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0800 177 7702
Are you worried about how the arrangements will work for the children?
I’m not going to tell you not to worry because that sounds patronising. But if I can, for a minute, try to alleviate some concerns.
With years of experience in working with couples to ensure that the needs of their children are paramount, we have some really sensible solutions. Ideas that you may kick yourself for not thinking yourselves. But when you have a divorce pending, hanging over your head, it is really hard to think straight. So without sounding patronising… please don’t worry too much, we will do all we can to help you, your spouse and your children. If I asked you: Do you love your children? You would both say ‘yes’. Would you donate blood to your child? You would both say ‘yes’. Would you donate one of your kidneys? I bet you would say ‘yes’. And so this is why we are going to ensure that their love for you both continues to grow and that at NO TIME do your children feel like a piggy in the middle. That at no time are they going to be used as pawns. Disagreements about drop off times, pick up times can all be resolved so simply.
We can put actions together so that some things can be taken care of in the future with specific dates if necessary but drafted correctly, so each of you understand your obligation. And of course not forgetting the Judges approval.
Do you know how much you should be paying or receiving?
Why the Law cannot be made simpler is the 10 million dollar question, but we have to work with what we have. Actually when we cut it into bite size
pieces, working out what is best for you both, what each of you need and what each of you can bring to the table, either now or in the future, it is not so scary – I promise you.
but there is a way to calculate or to offset. So please don’t worry. But if you have only been married for 2 years and there has been a pension building for 20 years, please do not think you will be entitled to half of it. That really is not sensible.
So call us today on 0800 177 7702.
Using the Divorce Negotiator when I was going through my divorce gave me huge peace of mind. It was important to both of us to deal with the situation with as little conflict as possible, so that it didn’t affect the children. Carol was very clear on the ground rules of the relationship at our first meeting. She was very clearly not on anybody’s “side” and always put forward a considered and balanced view of the situation. She helped us get through the divorce well within a year. The children were not affected and the relationship between myself and my ex was able to remain civilised throughout, as he did not feel that he was being “picked on”. If you want an effective and civilised end to your relationship, I would always recommend the Divorce Negotiator.
I am the happiest I have been in such a long time.
I really can't thank you enough for all you have done, I seriously don't think I would be where I am without your skills in my divorce.
I am always speaking highly of you as you must tread tricky water daily, a skill many may not realise.
The process over all was painless and although I’m not really on speaking terms with my ex –wife I felt the divorce negotiator was a way of avoiding yet more hostile situation.
for 15 years and had lived together for 5 before then we would be using the 20 years to calculate what each of you will see as a fair financial settlement.
working tax credits, single parent benefit, help with housing and council tax. We just need to ask the right questions. But for couples on low income who really do not want to stay together anymore this might just be the short term answer and help to keep arguing about money to a minimum.
on how you held those assets, before you were married. Everything can be worked out without fighting, if you only just know where to start.
Overall I found this a very good service and would recommend it. It saves a lot of money on solicitor fees and did not hinder me in any way at all. Thank you Carol for everything, I will recommend you to any of my friends should they need it.
Just to thank you again for your sensitivity and professionalism throughout this very difficult time.
Divorce Negotiator has always been very helpful, has always called when I have left a message. I think I didn’t understand the process through no fault of Carol’s. I would recommend Divorce Negotiator to all from family and friends
Did you know?
We are contactable seven days a week from 9am to 9pm.
We will explain the process step-by-step using plain English, less legal jargon.
We look to get the best for each party.
We don’t cause any acrimonious problems.
If your Spouse decides not to join us we can assist you as an individual ensuring that the other firm does not abuse the legal process.
99% of our clients give us 10/10 on our testimonials.